MENGAKUI KESILAPAN SENDIRI.

Myself, have made a mistakes on others. Yeaahh, everyone makes mistakes, right. No one is immune from making mistakes, walaupun kesilapan itu kecil. No matter what kind of mistakes we did, we should go to that person, say sorry salam tangan, kalau perempuan sama perempuan bolehla saling peluk okayy ! thehe. Remember, we are not perfect human beings. There is still perfect, which is God. Allah yang maha esa.

Enough, let us continue what we are talking about. We're talking about, dare to admit our own mistakes. Berani mengakui kesilapan sendiri.

Actually there has advantages if we are brave enough to admit our mistakes.

Retain the sins of others, makes our hearts will always be nervous (except if you are a fool,and churlish). To make the heart feel calm and free from guilt, you must dare to make a declaration at the sins that have been done. Walau apapun pandangan orang lain, you will feel relieved when you confess your mistakes. Pedulikan cakap orang lain tu. Dorang sebenarnya taknak tgk korang happy dan tenang.

It's hard to make a confession. While we want to make a confession, we will have feelings of fear, shame, and so forth. However, do not worry. The following is the best way to make a confession.

• Before making the confession, make sure you know what you want to say and want to explain. Do well and do not stutter.
• Instead, the discussion should be resolved between you and him/her alone. Do not involve other people.
• Ini paling penting. Start a conversation with the other story first. For example, say hello, praised his style, or tell her amusing stories. Ini penting. Takkanla korang tibe2 nk pegi jmpa die lpastu cakap "wehh sorry. haritu aku bla bla bla". Elok elok mood die tgh okay, terus jadi tak elok. Then, before we had pleaded guilty, ask for forgiveness first. For example. 'If I say this, please do not be angry with me.It may be annoying you, but I really  feel guilty and want to apologize to you'.
• And and lepastu, whatever he/she says, you should just shut up and accept it. He/she might be a bit emotional  when hearing your confession dan percaya la, walaupun die tengah marah, he/she would be able to receive it.
• If he/she is too angry, you should leave him/her a moment to relieve his feelings.
• Everyone has their own ego, but in this problem, first set aside ego. And be brave to admit any mistake we  ever made​​.